{"id":8415,"date":"2020-08-14T13:25:15","date_gmt":"2020-08-14T12:25:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/more-selfesteem.com\/?page_id=8415"},"modified":"2022-02-26T10:36:03","modified_gmt":"2022-02-26T09:36:03","slug":"how-does-low-self-esteem-affect-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/more-selfesteem.com\/more-self-esteem\/building-self-esteem\/how-does-low-self-esteem-affect-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"How does low self-esteem affect relationships?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n
As a qualified life coach and success mentor, I often hear from people who are having issues with their relationships. Although there are many factors that can influence the quality of our relationships with others, self esteem is a major part of it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
So, how does low self-esteem affect relationships? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
According to Marigold et al. (2010), those with low self esteem often behave negatively at difficult times in a relationship. When self-esteem is low, a person in a relationship is likely to exaggerate negatives and experience rejection. This may cause a response that can damage the relationship.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n The effects self esteem may have on your relationships can only be addressed once you are aware of them. To help you with this, I will help you understand the patterns of behavior in your relationships that low self esteem may cause and what to do about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Essentially, there are two major problems that can occur:<\/p>\n\n\n\n A person with healthy self-esteem feels calm, confident, and self-assured 90% of the time. It is possible that things can go wrong when you suffer stress, but generally positive self esteem is good for your relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Signs that self esteem is causing problems can include anxiety, nervousness, inability to communicate, jealousy or lack of honesty. We’ll look at these more closely in a short while.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If your relationships are not going the way you want there are two possibilities to consider. The first is that you might be experiencing the effects of low self esteem yourself. The second is that the person you are in a relationship with could be suffering from low self esteem issues<\/a>. Either way, you need to act if you want to improve your quality of relationships. In the second case, there still many things you can do to help the other person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n You can understand if the other person has low self esteem if they act with unwarranted anxiety, fear, reluctance to talk or nervousness. If this is the case, then if you want to improve the relationship you will have to act carefully and with consideration.<\/p>\n\n\n\n If you suffer from low self esteem you may feel shy, anxious, and even fearful. This is very likely to affect your relationships and your ability to communicate with others.<\/p>\n\n\n\nWhat are the signs that low self-esteem is affecting your relationships? <\/h2>\n\n\n\n
Your Relationships Can Deteriorate If You Suffer From Low Self Esteem<\/h2>\n\n\n\n