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How to Reach Your Dreams - My Top Ten Tips
by Karl Perera
Another extremely helpful article about confidence, self
esteem and going for your dreams, I will list for you my top ten tips for
reaching your dreams.
Please leave a comment at the bottom and tell me what
you think and maybe even tell us what your dreams are.
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- Before you ever hope to achieve anything you need to create a dream,
a vision of what exactly you want. Your dream needs to be clear in your
mind as it is this image that will drive you to succed in achieving it.
If you are unclear, as you may well be, what you want then you can't
even get started. So create your dream and know what your heart most
desires.
- Forget what has passed. Your dream does not depend on what happened
before but what you do from now on. Your history, your background is not
something which decides if you can succeed. For example, some people see
themselves as having a disadvantage and even persuade themselves that
success is more difficult for them because of their race, their age or
whatever else they believe limits them. The truth is it is not your age
or anything else that limits you but what you think.
An example of this is Colonel Sanders of KFC fame. You know the old guy
who invented the recipe for KFC chicken and made millions. He didn't see
his age as a problem and he completely changed what he was doing and
made a fortune. He actually started selling chicken when he was 40. He
had started working 22 years before that and got fired a couple of
times. He had a short and limited career in the army and was not a
Colonel. This was an honorary title given to him byt the State of
Kentucky due to his accomplishments in business.
- Work doing something you love. If you do this it won't seem like
work at all. Try the opposite, (many people do just that, they hate
their job), and see how difficult it s to make a success of it.
- Have confidence and belief in
yourself. This is also related to your self esteem. Believing you
can reach the dreams and goals you set yourself is half the battle.
- Be prepared to give first and what you give will pay back tenfold.
Don't expect others to give you and think that the take mentality will
get you anywhere. Always think how you can help others and they will
thank you in kind. Business and personal life work in the same way.
Those who take all the time are never successful. Take your time and
give of yourself and you will be rewarded.
- Learn from your mistakes and be happy that you made them for they
have shown you what doesn't work which brings you closer to knowing what
does. If you see mistakes as necessary steps to learning and improving
then you will never fear failure. This means you will never avoid doing
what is necessary in case it doesn't work. Learn every day from the
lessons that life gives you. This is the true path to success and
achieving your goals.
- Developing new and creative ideas continues on from the above. To do
this you need to dream and take chances. Maybe your ideas won't work at
first but if you persist you may create something truly original and
what could be more successful than that?
- Don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. No-one can know
everything. The person who never asks for help and goes it alone is
often low in self esteem and afraid of looking weak or stupid. Admit
your weaknesses and accept you need to learn more. Cooperation is one of
the cornerstones of reaching your dreams. Maybe someone you know may
share your dream and help you to achieve it quicker than you ever could
on your own so don't be afraid to ask for help.
- Be positive whenever you can.
Mistakes, as wehave said, are a part of the journey towards achieving
your goals and without positivity you may give up before you succeed.
Attitude is everything.
- Don't be selfish while chasing your dreams. Help others to succeed
and want others to be successful. If you are jealous of others' success
or if you want others to fail you build everything on negative emotions
and trap yourself in failure. This is in tune with no.5 above that you
should give first. Don't be so concerned with only yourself and you will
open yourself to the benefits of cooperation and friendship.
There is so much more I could have added to this list but the
important thing is to concentrate on the points above and you'll soon
start moving forward. As long as you are positive and honest with
yourself and have self belief then you can achieve anything you want.
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"Really,that is a beautiful and helpful write up. I am greatly nourished by it. Kudos!"
"your advice has really changed my life. Thanx please and may god bless you"
"Some wonderful guidelines which I will try to follow."
"Really these article have made me understand that achieving my dreams means I have to help others achieve theirs. What a great write up!"
"great article to boost up one's achievement ones dreams n build up self confidence which in turn can help to achieve goals."
"Thought provoking,realistic and practical guiding article. If practiced in true spirit with consistency, can bring positive change in anybody's life."
"Good thoughts. Absoluely it will bring positive change in life by following it."
"Very thoughtful article."
"Great article. However, I have to disagree with #5 as it seems completely subjective."
"Self Esteem articles have greatly helped me in achieving my goals and this one has given me encouragement on the journey am about to start in my life. Continue inspiring us."
"Really great! helpful .i love to read every newvarticles..thank u and more power..! Keep it up."
"this article really helps me now when i am feeling so depressed thanku so much"
"This has really restored my confidence...I was on the brink of giving up..thank You soo much Karl"
"Lovely!! God bless you"
"nice guidelines."
"Trying to leap/rush to success hasn't worked. I will make these rules my baby steps. Thank you & God bless you."
"Why success is always measured in terms of financial success like the KFC example?
I believe financial success is a by product. I should not be the aim."
"I HAVE LEARNT A LOT FROM THIS ARTICLE. god bless you"
"thank you very much for these tips"
"Thanks for the important tips."
"Excellent for thinking about and implementing!"
"This really helped me a lot, which gave me more of a better understanding about life itself & the time we with it.."
"From the day i started reading your articles every thing changed i don't think even the thank you can be enough for you but i only pray that God bless you abundantly."
"Thank you very much for this and many other articles you have written before.You are wonderful, prolific and gifted. Your articles have helped rebuild many hopeless souls. Regarding last article, tip no 5 was not clear to me and I would like you to explain what you mean by "Those who take all the time are never successful. Take your time and give of yourself and you will be rewarded". Best wishes"
"These articles help to encourage me to do as I am having my dream to start up my small business on service providing on meeting room and catering. Thanks you so much for your share."
"Iam so encouraged indeed.I will print this article and read it each day.Thank you!!!"
"thank you very much. your article is empowering the hopeless lives. may God bless and add more knowledge to u. u have really made a possitive impact towards my life. keep up"
"Thanks so much for the words of inspiration.i hope this will change my way of thinking.am looking forward to the next inspirational messages.
kind regards"
"Stephen - "Those who take all the time are never successful."
I mean that the people who just take from others without giving are never successful. It is those who give to others who are most successful. You should give your best to the world and help others first."
"Ursula - financial success is not the only way to measure true success of course. I was just giving the example that age should not stand in your way just as it didn't for Col Sanders."
"Exceptional ideas to be sucessful in life.Thank you I am inspired."
"Thank you so much for your encouraging words.
God bless you and give you more to share with us."
"Enjoy your article very much they has really helped me . self esteem sometime is low . Read your letters they perk me right up.keep sharing .God bless you so very much."
"I want to thank you for everything you wrote, because I found all your articles most valuable, inspiring and helpful to me and I believe to many others.Your work is a great contrubution to making a the mankind improve and go forward. Keep going, we are followimg. Love, Simka"
"Really it is very practical but its fully work when we are in normal or good condition its not mean its not work in bad condition but not equal in when we are in good condition.
I think if we Learn this in good condition so we face bad condition.
But Life is a unique thing we only customize it?"
"They are really helpful in every deed. Thanks to you Karl."
"Thank you for the article. I agree with you that there is joy in giving, and helping others, as long as you do not allow yourself to be used by other people."
"THESE ARE CAREFULL WORDS OF THOUGHTS AND INSPIRATIONS. AM TOUCHED"
"Before I read this article I have a problem in achieving my dream , but really its a useful article , thnk you very much"
"Karl, thanks so much for this inspiring article.It is very helpful to me. One of the dreams I have is to be a writer but often time, I think I may not be able to fulfill this dream since I don't have enough vocabulary to be a good writer. The tips you offered will help me overcome my self-doubt. Thanks, Obiageli"
"it was really helpful, thank you very much"
"a wonderful suggestion, thanks so much."
"Karl, I think what you have written are words of wisdom and inspired from God to help others like me. Only the ones that help others can find a treasure of knowing what happiness means and comes from giving ourselves to others. Not everybody can write about it and even put it into practice. May God continue to bless you every day of your life. Thanks so much."