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Confidence Building Tips that will help you
Confidence and self esteem go together. They are vital weapons needed to face the challenges of life. Lack of self belief can stop you achieving anything. This is because you'll be more likely to give up before you get very far and you're likely to believe the negative things others say to you. With confidence in yourself you can't be stopped because you'll trust your decisions and be less likely to doubt. So we are agreed that confidence is extremely important but just how do you begin to build it? That's what I'll try to cover on this page so read on my friend...
Confidence building - no idea where to start?
People with high self esteem behave confidently. They value themselves and are at ease with who and what they are. This leads to confidence in themselves because they are happy with their place in the world. Higher self esteem enables you to see your strengths and positive qualities clearly. Low self esteem stops all your efforts to be confident because you cannot value yourself or who you are. If you feel you are worthless then you cannot respect yourself. With low self esteem your confidence is damaged because you look at yourself negatively and this creates self doubts which prevent you from realising your potential. One of the first and most important factors in building your confidence is to improve and work on your self esteem.
Confidence matters in:
Where does self-confidence come from?
It comes from several sources:
Some people appear naturally confident but guess what? They've learnt how to be that way and so can you! Just because someone seems confident on the outside, does not mean they feel that way inside. Some people have learnt how to look confident and that will certainly help you to feel better and encourage you as others respond to you in a more positive way. The secret to taking on challenges you fear is to learn how to look more confident and then you will feel more relaxed, however, this is not the end of the story. You may still be scared inside, we'll talk more about this in a moment.
If you lack self esteem or self-confidence you must look above for the reasons. You may be overly criticizing yourself or telling yourself negative things like "I'm bound to fail" or "I'm not good enough" or even "I don't deserve to succeed". These will make failure likely. Check this page for how to end negative thoughts
Maybe you believe others comments about your inability to succeed or your faults as they see them. What's stopping you proving them wrong or challenging their view instead of accepting it? Defend yourself. Your self esteem depends on it! If you have a poor opinion of yourself, why should others respect you?
Focus on what you have done and you can be proud of. Read this article about how to be confident today
How you can become more confident and successful?
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Unsure which are the best confidence building tools?
Use any tools available to you to improve your performance. Tools could be books, courses, attending seminars or researching the internet. Try using a journal to plot your successes as they occur. You can learn to become confident I promise - so start today!
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